Looks like only the unlocked 5G got the One UI 2.1 update. And I think the S10 got it. Which is weird. The Note 10 came out after the S10. Usually the newer phones get the updates faster.
I have an AT&T Note10+ and I'm in Pennsylvania...I'm still waiting on the update as well!!!!! I'm using the phone with CRIKET WIRELESS currently dont know if that has to do anything with the update????🤷🏿♂️🤷🏿♂️🤷🏿♂️