I don't think they meant that it's taking so long for the update to download. they meant why is it taking so long to even get the update. I am in the same position to. I have an unlocked phone and cant even get on smart switch like everyone else.
Its not Samsung. The update is ready. It all depends on your carrier. Once the update is ready, Samsung will send it to your carrier. At that point when your Carrier is ready to send out the update to your device, they will. They usually get sent out in waves to multiple devices at a time. So be on the lookout because you should be getting it soon 👍
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