I have a Samsung S10, that I'm having issues with after my last update. When my phone connects to Bluetooth in the car it automatically switches to vibrate. I receive no notifications while I'm on the phone. I've done a soft reset, cleaned the cache, checked the don't disturb and checked sll the notification settings. Has anyone else had this issue?
It's possible the phone is turning on the safety features for driving since you connected to the car.
Check the settings in "Driving Mode" maybe?
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